But what if sadness has already taken control of our lives? I don’t have all the answers, but I believe that we always have a choice to dwell in sadness or do something about it. It might not happen overnight, we might struggle, we might be exhausted and we might want to give up but it’s better than not to do anything. Do we really want to change our situation or are we already comfortable with being sad? Have you honestly tried your best to change how you think? Yes, other people wouldn’t exactly know what you are going through but the truth is, we only live once and how we live our lives is our sole responsibility.